{"id":1966,"date":"2016-04-27T16:46:43","date_gmt":"2016-04-27T16:46:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/abidingfathers.org\/?p=878"},"modified":"2016-04-27T16:46:43","modified_gmt":"2016-04-27T16:46:43","slug":"your-family-our-passion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/af2.musiimes.space\/index.php\/2016\/04\/27\/your-family-our-passion\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Family&#8230;Our Passion!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>May I ask you a question?<\/h3>\n<p>Your family\u2026our passion! When one is passionate about some cause, someone, some thing; it compels them to take steps to satisfy or fulfill that passion. People will go to great lengths or spend huge sums of time and\/or money to get it! Passion is defined as \u2018any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate\u2019; \u2018a strong amorous feeling or desire\u2019. Passions might start in your mind but it is mostly fulfilled in your heart. One might have a passion for sports, golf, food, cars, opposite sex, games, boats, to serve others; you name it. Name yours!<\/p>\n<p>Dads, your family\u2019s well-being is the overwhelming motivation that drives the <em>Abiding <\/em>Fathers ministry.\u00a0 Everything we plan, pray about, spend time on, write about, meet on, speak to, engage with; it\u2019s all about your family. Why? Because there is absolutely nothing more valuable than you, your wife and children. Nothing! Quite frankly, we are passionate about you and your success!\u00a0 Maybe to the point of obsession. We desire it so deeply!!<\/p>\n<p><em>May I ask you a question?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Is <strong><em>your family\u2026your passion<\/em><\/strong>?\u00a0 Be honest with yourself. Think about this. If it\u2019s not, why isn\u2019t it? If it is, do they know it? Do you continually express it verbally and demonstrate it through your actions?<\/p>\n<h4>Ask yourself:<\/h4>\n<p>Is your wife your top priority and does she know it<br \/>\nAre your children second only to her and do they know that<br \/>\nWould they say you love them unconditionally<br \/>\nDo you plan your schedule to be a part of their lives<br \/>\nDo you know what they are passionate about<br \/>\nDo you support them in their endeavors<br \/>\nDo you know each of their gifts, personal and spiritual<br \/>\nDo you date your wife\u2026and your kids<br \/>\nDo you plan events and trips to be with them<br \/>\nDo you tell them you love them daily<br \/>\nDo you pray with and for them<br \/>\nDo you involve them in your work life<br \/>\nDo you have a plan for your family<br \/>\nDo you care enough to discipline them when needed<br \/>\nDo you know your kids\u2019 teachers\u2019 names<br \/>\nDo you know their friends\u2019 names<br \/>\nDo you bless them verbally<br \/>\nDo you take time to listen to her and them<br \/>\nDo you engage them with truth from the Bible<br \/>\nDo you share missions to the poor and needy together<br \/>\nDo they feel free to share intimate thoughts with you<br \/>\nDo you have their back&#8230;can they count on you<br \/>\nAre you attempting to be their best role model?<\/p>\n<h4>Take this inventory test and rate your passion for your family<\/h4>\n<p>Then take measures to correct the weaknesses. Know that you cannot be perfect in every area, but you can be in pursuit of that perfection. Your wife and kids will sense your passion for them, and forgiving when you fall short. And when you do, simply stop, ask forgiveness and move on with your passionate journey.<\/p>\n<p>God will direct you in your pursuit if you will allow Him. Remember, He pursued you with passion, even to the point of giving His Son\u2019s very life to prove His love for His earthly family, YOURS!! Can we do any less?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLove your wife as Christ loved the Church.\u201d Eph. 5:25 \u201cFathers, don\u2019t exasperate your children, take them by the hand and lead them in the way of the Master.\u201d Eph. 6:4<br \/>\nMy abbreviated translations.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>May I ask you a question? Your family\u2026our passion! When one is passionate about some cause, someone, some thing; it compels them to take steps to satisfy or fulfill that passion. 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