Incarceration

Temporary confinement INCARCERATION…speaks of confinement of inmates inside a jail or prison. Internment is the imprisonment or confinement of people, commonly in large groups, without trial. The term is a specially used for the confinement of enemy citizens in wartime or of terrorism suspects. Either way, it is simply being ‘locked up’. I have spent […]

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Stewardship

Director of affairs STEWARDSHIP…is defined as the office, duties and obligations of a steward. So, what is a steward? One employed in a large household or estate to manage domestic concerns. Primarily, it is ‘one who directs affairs’. Scripture addresses this in numerous places. I Corinthians 4.2 sets the standard of conduct. “Moreover it is […]

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Looking Back…Looking Forward

Live in the present LOOKING BACK…LOOKING FORWARD…is a trick to do it at the same time. Might make you cross-eyed. Don’t we all in some way live our lives this way? What in actual fact does this mean? First of all, it may keep us from living in the present moment. And at the same […]

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Be A Leader

Leading others As a girl’s high school soccer coach, I am reminded of one of the lessons I recently shared with them. God has chosen each of us to lead others in some manner. 2 Chronicles 31:21 says: “In all that he did in the service of the Temple of God and in his efforts […]

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Surprises of Fatherhood

Zechariah SURPRISES…are things or events that come into one’s life that were not planned or expected. I love to give and receive them. They add a zing to life. Of course, not all are positive. No need to list those. Some can be devastating. Kids are full of surprises, in what they say, do or […]

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Bags

Rebellion BAGS…are used to carry many and varying things. Groceries, food, trash, leaves, make-up, clothes—you name it. They come in plastic, leather, cloth and paper—some are fancy and expensive, while others are just a plain old brown paper bag. Speaking of which; wasn’t it fun as a kid to blow up a small paper bag […]

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Rising to the Occasion

Rise Dads, I know you love those Thanksgiving rolls. But it takes yeast or leaven for them to rise and become delectable. A little butter doesn’t hurt. Just like those rolls rising, you need to rise to the occasion and be the servant-leader in your home. You are that yeast, that leaven in your family. […]

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Thoughts About My Father

Richard Weldon Lunsford January 3, 1934 – July 1, 2017 I have been “wandering through the fog” in my mind and emotions of knowing how to use the events of the past several weeks to instruct and guide my future – both immediate and long term.  The reality of how quickly the ebb and flow […]

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What If?

Dwelling on the past What if…is a thought process or a way of living that impacts many people. Always living with doubts or regrets. Not a very fruitful mindset for fulfilling your purpose in life I would suggest. It’s a game we all have played athttps://abidingfathers.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Regretful-Male-e1502393825975.jpeg least one time in our life. What if I […]

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Solutions

Solution=Dad SOLUTIONS…to today’s complex issues in the world are reasonably simple. Let’s look at a few. Be my guest if you have some also. CRIME—A dad in the home who disciplines out of love for their children; showing right from wrong, consequences of actions, manners, self-control, respect for others’ lives and property. POVERTY—A dad in […]

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